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Compromise!
Ritanjali Hastir , Shimla: Nov 12 2008
Made Popular Nov 14 2008
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Compromise!

Life of every individual is full of compromise at some level or the other but as soon as a woman comes in question her life is more compromising than a man. Each time when a female tries to make a decision she is immediately reminded of her situation and her surrounding.

She is asked to compromise at every step sometimes for her parents, her brother and sister and after marriage for her husband, children, or in-laws and the irony of the situation is she is asked to do it by another female.

The real question that one needs to ask is, is being a female such a big crime that one has to pay the price of it through out her life sometimes by giving up her dreams, sometimes by giving up her self- respect and pride. Does being a female snatch away the right from one to say wrong as wrong? We all know immediately when female tries to question any male she is immediately hushed by elderly woman.

Male or female both are born with same amount of labor still as time takes its spin the changes start to manifest. Who should we blame for the sacrifices that women make in the name of compromise?

Predicament of a female can never change until females themselves take a minute to ponder over the question how far in the name of compromise they are willing to sacrifice and ask the favor from other women too. There is thin line between compromise and sacrifice and its high time when one should be able to recognize it.

Female is next to creator of life and if she herself is unconscious about her pride, honor how can she be expected to enlighten the world?

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Life is name of compromises.Don’t make it a gender centric issue.I don’t much about how one female comes to perceive the other female in critical times since I am male but you will be glad to know that male are taking all steps to provide better room to fair sex.However, it does not mean end of compromises.Life is another name of trials and tribulations.Mind you,problems in life are not gender-specific.So what’s the point in analyzing them at par with gender related equations ?
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Shiv
india, India
compromise or sacrifices are made by an individual
yes i do agree that the share of female
in compromise/sacrifice is higher
part of it is because her unique body structure
say only she can get pregnant , deliver & nurture a child& has to face the problems relating to menstruation & menopause
some is because it is man’s world
but a women can stand up for her right
it is up to her to remain a slave of the system,manipulate the same to her advantage or die fighting
one can always stay single & not be tied down by family responsibility & ignore the snide remark
it is our life ,our choice
amen
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@ Shiv,

” say only she can get pregnant , deliver & nurture a child& has to face the problems relating to menstruation & menopause ”

Frankly speaking, Shiv these happenings cannot be treated at par with compromises.These are integral part of any woman’s life.And something that’s akin to breathing cannot be treated as a compromise.Fire always has to produce heat.That cannot be labeled as compromise!!
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